How FMTY Dates Work (And Why They’re Worth It)
If you’ve spent any time reading through companion websites, you’ve likely seen the phrase FMTY—short for Fly Me to You. But if you’re unfamiliar with how it works, you might have questions:
Is it complicated to arrange? Is it only for major cities? Does it actually feel different from a local date?
The truth is, FMTY experiences are more common than you’d expect—and for many discerning clients, they’re the preferred way to spend time with a luxury companion.
Here’s what to know if you’re considering one.
1. What exactly is a FMTY date?
A FMTY (Fly Me to You) date is when you invite a companion to join you in your city (or a city you’re visiting), rather than seeing someone local to that area. It could be:
A dinner and overnight stay in your hotel
A full weekend at a resort or private property
A multi-day international trip
Even a simple overnight in your hometown if you're seeking someone highly specific
The goal? To spend time with the companion you actually want, not just the one who happens to be nearby.
2. Why men prefer FMTY dates
There are many reasons clients choose FMTY experiences over local bookings:
Selectivity: You choose a companion who aligns with your taste and lifestyle, not just your location.
Discretion: There's far less chance of being recognised when you're spending time with someone not based in your city.
Consistency: For repeat dates, FMTY allows you to build an ongoing connection with the same woman—even across countries or continents.
Ease: The planning is handled in advance. When she arrives, everything is already in place.
3. How to arrange a FMTY experience
The process is usually very straightforward:
Send an inquiry with your city, proposed dates, and how much time you’d like to spend together
Complete screening as you would for any date
Confirm availability and agree on the travel plan
Provide a deposit—this usually covers the date and sometimes part or all of the travel cost
Receive booking confirmation, then prepare for the experience
Depending on the companion, flights and hotel may be arranged directly by her or reimbursed with receipts—this is clarified in advance, so nothing is ambiguous.
4. What you’ll need to cover
FMTY dates include all the same elements as a local date, with the addition of travel and accommodation if not otherwise provided.
Travel expenses: Business class or premium economy is often preferred, depending on distance and standard
Accommodation: A hotel suite or private guest space—something comfortable, elegant, and suitable for hosting
Duration: Most companions require a minimum of 8–12 hours for domestic FMTYs and overnight or multi-day minimums for international invitations
This ensures that the travel investment is matched by the quality and length of the time together.
5. Why FMTY offers a better experience
When done properly, a FMTY date offers an experience that’s calm, immersive, and personal. Unlike local bookings, there’s no sense of rushing. No tight windows. No distractions.
It becomes more than a date—it becomes a shared atmosphere. A temporary world where time slows, pressure fades, and the focus is entirely on ease, privacy, and genuine connection.
That’s why so many men choose to fly in the woman they actually want—rather than settle for someone nearby who doesn’t quite fit.
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