The Fine Print

I. Courtesan’s Code

  • Gifts are never compulsory—but they are customary, and always cherished. I delight in the ritual of gifting.


    I do not accept cash tips, as my fee is comprehensive, but I do adore beautifully chosen gifts. On tour, patrons may choose a gift that reflects the calibre of our engagement.
    I keep a private wish list for admirers. You are welcome to select something directly from it—or, if short on time, bring a gift voucher for the specific amount of your chosen item. I find the sentiment no less romantic.


    Due to my frequent travel and love of collecting, I may be unable to accept a gift outside of my wishlist, unless it suits my tastes exactly.


    A small gesture, chosen well, is worth more than extravagance done in haste.

  • My deepest thanks to those who speak of me kindly.


    If you know someone who would enjoy our time together, your introduction is appreciated. Special rates are available for dates as a gesture of gratitude.


    For companions: I offer up to 50% commission for successful client referrals.

  • Your privacy is my priority. I maintain a strict no-review policy and never share my face online or in advance of our meeting.


    I do not post about gifts, dates, or travels on public platforms. What we share is ours alone.


    Should we meet in public, I’ll be nothing more than a stranger.


    For high-profile individuals, NDAs are welcomed.

  • There is no pleasure, and no connection, without kindness.


    I trust you will show the same respect I offer you.


    Should I feel unsafe or disrespected at any time, I reserve the right to end our meeting immediately without refund.

II. Invitations

  • I frequently visit Dubai and London, and accept invitations worldwide.

    As a collector, I travel often. Upcoming destinations include Asia (Singapore, Hong Kong, Macau, Taipei, Tokyo, Seoul), Australia (Melbourne, Sydney), and the USA for private travels.
    Dates must be arranged in advance. This will be my only visit to these cities until 2026 at the earliest. Travel demands reflection, and I return only when the inspiration does.

  • As with any experience worth having, not everyone gets access.


    To secure a date, screening is required for all new admirers.


    You may choose one of the following: a public LinkedIn profile, a reference from a companion, or an ID photo.

  • Bedtime: A true sleeping beauty, I like to be asleep by 11PM or earlier. For overnight bookings, I need 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep to restore my inner glow.


    24+ hour dates: Please allow for an additional 2 hours of personal time in our itinerary, in addition to the 8 hours of sleep. This allows me to pen letters, commune with birds, or tend to other activities essential to being me.

  • I’m happiest with an early bedtime. For dates ending after 10PM, a pumpkin fee applies.
    Please add 1000 to my fee. (Or simply extend to an overnight—glass slippers optional.)

  • Last-minute invitations usually remain unanswered. However, should I come across a thoughtful invitation from a thoughtful man, I may make an exception.
    Screening is still required, so send it, along with your date request, to contact@alexandra-flores.com if your invitation is last-minute. Add 1000 to my fee.

  • While on tour, I welcome you to my five-star hotel. For longer travel dates, a separate room may be arranged.

III. Practicalities

  • A deposit is required to secure our time together. It confirms your sincerity and secures the date.
    Until a deposit is received, the date remains open. I do not chase confirmations.
    In the highly unlikely event that I am unable to enter a country—though this has never happened before—your deposit will be fully applicable to a future date.
    Should I need to cancel, I will reverse your deposit within 24 hours.


    Deposits may be sent via Throne, TransferWise, or Bitcoin.

  • FMTY Dates
    – Cancellations more than 30 days in advance: deposit is transferable.
    – Cancellations 14–30 days prior: 50% fee.
    – Cancellations within 14 days: 100% of the booking fee applies.

    Tour Dates
    – Deposits are non-transferable due to limited time in each city.
    – Cancellations more than 14 days in advance: deposit is transferable only to a 3-day weekend away.
    – Cancellations within 14 days: 100% of the booking fee applies, as other invitations will have been declined.

    This policy applies to all clients, regardless of our long-term friendship.

  • I require a 50% deposit, with the remaining balance due at the beginning of our time together.


    Payment may be made via Throne or TransferWise. I ask that you settle it in front of me so I can confirm receipt—after which our date can begin without interruption.


    My sense of etiquette will never allow me to ask or remind you about the balance. If payment has not been made within the first 10 minutes of our time together, I will excuse myself to the ladies’ room.


    If you prefer, you’re welcome to settle the balance in advance, or the morning of our meeting.

  • All date-related expenses—transport, entertainment, refreshments—are in addition to my rate. Unfortunately, my evening clutch is not large enough to carry a wallet.

  • Our health is of utmost importance to me. I always practice safe intimacy to ensure mutual peace of mind.